ELDER Neal A. Maxwell of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints' Quorum of the Twelve spoke candidly to the Deseret News about his
cancer, in 1999, some 5 years before his passing in 2004.
And, contrary to what many people
may suspect, he considered his cancerous disease to be more of a blessing than
anything else.
Speaking at the annual National
Cancer Survivors Day for Utah at Hogle Zoo on June 5, 1999, he said one of the
blessings of cancer is that it can help a person sort out the big things from
the little things in life.
Here's more of the original Deseret News interview:
"We have a different
perspective, a sharper focus," he said about cancer patients. "I've
been given by the Lord a delay en route."
Elder Maxwell, age 72 at the time,
said hair is one of those things that doesn't seem as important after suffering
from cancer. A loving conversation with your family, however, ends up seeming
very critical.
He was diagnosed with leukemia
three years ago. It was caught fairly early but was progressing very rapidly.
He had multiple chemotherapies and ended up spending 46 days in the hospital.
Elder Maxwell was only able to
work part time in his church duties until 10 months ago when he regained his
strength and returned to full-time status.
"I feel much better
now," he said.
He's still receiving some
chemotherapy but remains very hopeful.
"Each of us faces an
eventual exit route," he said of life.
Elder Maxwell said quite a number
of general authorities of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have
been stricken with cancer, including President Spencer W. Kimball, Elder Bruce
R. McConkie and President Howard W. Hunter.
"There's no immunity from
suffering," he said of church leaders. "Only variation from
suffering. How we handle it is the key."
He's especially thankful for the
special care his wife, Colleen, whom he describes as a "Florence
Nightingale," provided him.
Elder Maxwell said leukemia also has
given him a much greater appreciation of the atonement of Jesus Christ. Another
blessing he made reference to from his illness was a better capacity to receive
help from others.
"We must learn to
receive," he said.
He said he also has a greater
respect for the doctors and nurses who deal with cancer patients on a daily
basis. He credited the advances of medical science for also helping more cancer
patients recover.
"I'm wiser by the
experience," he said.
The church leader advised cancer
patients against wondering why me and why now? He urged patients not to allow
tomorrow to overhang today and to continue to avoid self-pity.
He had told the organizers of the
event that he wasn't looking for any special treatment or recognition there. He
was just glad to attend such an event where special kinship can be felt.
"I draw from their
fellowship," he said.
Indeed, he was not dressed in the
usual suit and tie apparel of the general authority, but rather a jacket,
T-shirt and casual pants. He even carried and sometimes wore a baseball cap.
-Written by Lynn Arave and published
in the Deseret News, June 6, 1999.
SIDE NOTE: As a reporter, I was
fortunate to be able to speak one-on-one and privately that day with Elder
Maxwell for about 7 minutes. I also thought of a great final question just as others noticed Elder
Maxwell and came flooding over, swamping him in a sea of zoo-goers -- and it was interview over. I don’t
recall what that unasked query was, but I guess I was not supposed to ask it ….
Some years later, I would attend
a memorial service for Elder Maxwell (not sponsored by the LDS Church) at the
University of Utah. I was surprised how well he had impressed many non-members of
the Church. I’m sure he is currently reaching out to many others now in the Spirit World,
as perhaps only his gentle, poetic style can do. --Lynn Arave.
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NOTE: This article and all of the NighUntoKolob blog are NOT an official website of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. They are the author's conclusions and opinions only.